Women Are Sharing The Times They Realised Their Partner Hated Them And Good Lord, Are Men OK?
The bar is well and truly in hell.
Everyone who’s ever gone through a breakup knows that there comes a time in a relationship when you can just sense the exact moment love turns to hate.
Sure, not all breakups are messy and hate is a strong word. But when relationships start to fall apart, it’s easy to pick up on the energy shift that comes with this breakdown.
For some lucky people, it might well be a boyfriend effectively communicating that they just simply no longer want to be in a relationship. However, for most, it’s usually something unbelievably petty that makes this energy shift loud and abundantly clear.
And earlier this week, UK influencer and TV presenter Oloni decided to check with her followers to see if she was the only person who had experienced the chaos of men making it clear that they actually hate you.
“You ever think about the men who said they liked you before and suddenly realised they actually really hated you?” Oloni asked her 223,000 Twitter followers. “When did you realise he hated you??”
You ever think about the men who said they liked you before and suddenly realised they actually really hated you
— OLONI BABY (@Oloni) July 13, 2021
When did you realise he hated you??
— OLONI BABY (@Oloni) July 13, 2021
Unsurprisingly, Oloni was not alone.
As it turns out, men not being shy to let you know they’re over you is a universal feeling experienced by many, many women across the globe.
For some women, the lightbulb moment only comes after months of mistreatment which helps them eventually realise that they deserve better. You know, little things like constantly having to ask a boyfriend to do the bare minimum, always feeling unheard and ignored, or just not really feeling wanted by your partner.
it has come to my attention that y’all think I meant anal…… it’s worse, I was asking him to dump his other girlfriend 💀💀💀💀💀
— charlotte 🏳️🌈 (@goshcharlotte) July 13, 2021
But for others, all it takes is just one moment that’s too hard to ignore to clearly see that they aren’t loved anymore. And oh boy, did people share some real moments of realisation.
From men calling women jezebels right after having sex with them, to partners purposefully playing around with peanut allergies, to men insisting that cheating is ok because they were thinking about their girlfriend during the act, I really only have one question. Are men genuinely OK?!
When I sent him multiple paragraphs on how much he hurt me and he was like “I knew exactly what I was doing I just didn’t care” loooool (?!)
— laila (@lailatweetzx) July 13, 2021
After we had sex for the first time (and my first time ever) he got his bible out and started showing me scriptures about how I was a Jezebel
— 💛Baby Yoda is my Spirit Animal💛 (@DanielleC0483) July 13, 2021
When he said he was only spending time with me because he didn’t like the current version of Call of Duty 🥴
— Georgia (@georgiamaysxx) July 13, 2021
When his side bitch sent me a VN from HIS whatsapp dead at night letting me know he doesn’t want my ass and she got him now. The next day he called like nothing happened so I mentioned it to him, he turned and said “wtf?, she said she was gunna contact you on FB”. 🤣
— Jujubeejade (@Jujubeejade1) July 13, 2021
2 months after trying to sleep with me (and me declining) He sent me an invite to his wedding and said hope you can make it ‘sis’. https://t.co/Hv1NmYJK4K
— Rebecca Winter 🦋 (@RebeccaWinterr) July 13, 2021
When I went through his phone (thought he was sleeping) then he turned and said “after you finish finding what you looking for, go cry outside.. 😑
— kea 👑 (@kea_mabuse) July 13, 2021
When he ate nuts and kissed me to see what would happen… I’m freakin allergic
— Ness (@Vanessa123uk) July 13, 2021
When I broke down over the phone and his response was “call me when you’re done crying” then he hung up
— ThanosMain👅 (@itspengdreezy) July 13, 2021
My ex got mad when I started crying during contractions, waiting to give birth and told me to stop crying for attention.
— 𝕱𝖎𝖓𝖊 𝕮𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖆🦋 (@rissy2sway) July 13, 2021
Texted him “I love you “ his response “please stop it, I don’t love anyone , not even my family “💀
— :) (@penny_gerson) July 13, 2021
we were at a restaurant. he looked dead at me and said “see this is exactly why I do not want to be with you anymore. you’re always doing some extra shit why can’t you just eat your food like a normal fxcking person?”
in response to me asking for mustard. https://t.co/3DIbQ9j9iL
— Naira Banks (@jackieaina) July 14, 2021
He gave me the clap while I was pregnant. Then the side bitch txted me and said “he told me to tell you sorry”
— Raee✨ (@Muva_Shark) July 13, 2021
I asked to meet his mom after several months of being together and he replied “it‘s not like we’re going to be together much longer anyway”
— kiersten (@kierstensworld) July 13, 2021
He got mad at me everytime I had a seizure
— A Spoonful of Pain (@aspoonfulofpain) July 13, 2021
He said he can only post his female bestie and not me because the family knew her🤣
— Eminently Practical (@MarumoKago) July 13, 2021
When he cheated and said he was thinking about me the whole time
— SmokerHunters (@Phumyfied24) July 13, 2021
His brother heard us and asked to join, and he was going to let him😕 https://t.co/6GV1XnNvCb
— ST🖤 (@svphss) July 13, 2021
Even though this level of sheer disrespect and pure diabolic behaviour is the type of thing you really only see in movies, it turns out that men are just like that in real life too if Oloni’s many, many replies are anything to go by.
Oloni's threads basically prove that Tyler Perry's films are actually documentaries.
— Ronke Lawal (@ronkelawal) July 13, 2021
Honestly, between this and that cursed TikTok trend where women were sharing the absolute worst texts men had ever sent them, I’m sick.
Men, please go to therapy. I BEG you.