People Are Angry At A New Show Called ‘Hot & Heavy’ For Its Treatment Of Fat People
The trailer for the show about "mixed-weight relationships" has faced mixed reviews online.
TLC is facing backlash for Hot & Heavy, their new show about “mixed-weight relationships”.
The official trailer for Hot & Heavy, which premieres in January, was uploaded to Twitter this week to mixed reviews. The trailer features three couples: Joy and Chris, Kristin and Rusty, and Adrianna and Ricardo.
“For these couples, love knows no size,” TLC tweeted alongside the trailer. “See the highs and lows of their mixed-weight relationships on the series premiere of Hot & Heavy.”
For these couples, love knows no size. See the highs and lows of their mixed-weight relationships on the series premiere of #HotandHeavy Tuesday, January 7 at 10/9c. pic.twitter.com/QAFh8AILj7
— TLC Network (@TLC) December 10, 2019
The trailer opens with a scene of three women sitting together in hot tub as we watch the water overflow. It’s presumably meant to be funny because they’re fat, of course.
The vibe of the sneak peek let’s us know that the show is focused on the issues these “regular” guys face by being with their plus-size partners. Every problem in the trailer revolves around the “heavy” women, with no mention of what issues the men brought to each relationship.
As soon as the trailer was uploaded, people immediately found issue with the title of the show. While producers probably thought the play on words was smart, the title implies that anyone “heavy” can’t also be attractive.
hot and heavy is a terrible name for this show. implying that she’s not hot is….. idek what to say https://t.co/CMIlnf26BF
— JJ (@JusticeTierney) December 12, 2019
Hot and Heavy 😑
Fuck you TLC
— Mean Fat Girl- 🏳️🌈💄 (@Artists_Ali) December 11, 2019
What the entire fuck??? And to have the nerve to call it hot and “heavy” 🤨. I wish fat people could be on tv without the show always pertaining to their weight/exploiting them. Just one show like good god 🙄 https://t.co/5u8Qxzcaju
— Luci 😈 (@OliveOlayy) December 11, 2019
The exploitative nature of the show is only made worse by all the scenes TLC added for comedic effect. Beyond the opening hot tub scene, the shot of a driver hurling abuse is also questionable.
It’s amazing that TLC was able to capture the exact moment that a passerby mocked Adrianna as the “mixed-weight” couple were eating ice cream. People begun to point out that for this to realistically happen, TLC would’ve likely had to hire an actor.
Now you know damn well nobody gonna randomly do this, TLC really handing out checks for people to be an asshole lol https://t.co/Ej23bxeU9O
— Daniel (@MyFavsTrash) December 12, 2019
did they really have to show the water overflowing bro https://t.co/H8hOhFgR8M
— whoopy goldperc (@goldlinkjonny) December 12, 2019
But the biggest issues that people had with the Hot & Heavy was TLC’s portrayal of “mixed-weight” relationships solely being between heavier women and slimmer men.
Despite popular shows like The Simpsons, Family Guy and Fresh Prince of Bel-Air portraying larger men with thin wives, TLC chose to entirely focus the show on larger women.
I want “mixed-weight” to die a fiery death. because overwhelmingly this is applied to fat women in relationships with less fat or thin men.
meanwhile pop culture has been giving us fat men with thin wives as a norm for like every comedy sitcom or romcom?!? https://t.co/2zBUic3Mdb
— Shantel G. Buggs, Ph.D. (@sgbuggs) December 11, 2019
Of course, only the women are heavier.
Let’s retitle, “How Can Men Possibly Love Fat Women?”
🙄🙄🙄— Emily McCarty (@emjmccarty) December 11, 2019
https://twitter.com/SimoneMariposa/status/1204892107351027713?s=20
Beyond TLC’s choice to portray only one type of “mixed-weight” relationship, the men they have included fetishise the women throughout the trailer. “I absolutely love Kristen’s size,” Rusty says. “I wouldn’t mind if she was a little bit bigger.”
After a suggestion of gastric bypass surgery for Kristen to have children, Rusty refuses. Then the next clip then features an angered Kristen yelling: “You just want to keep me fat. Fuck the chips!”
“I wouldn’t mind if she was a little bit bigger” ehhhhh sounds like a fetish to me 😬😬😬
— mya🦁 (@myabrianne_21) December 10, 2019
This a fetish an it’s so obvious
— Quit Yacking (@Class_Clown903) December 12, 2019
But not everyone was against Hot & Heavy for the fetishisation or portrayal of fat women, some were angered by TLC’s alleged glorification of obesity.
What’s with TLC and morbidly obese people? I can understand my 600 lb life because they actually want help but morbid obesity not to be celebrated.
— Jacq Hamilton (@GoJacqHam) December 10, 2019
I get that obese people need love too but celebrating morbid obesity is just wrong, it’s not something to aspire to
Definitely avoiding this show— LadyHeyoka (@HeyokaLady) December 10, 2019
Excuse me TLC, this is not healthy. You should not be promoting it. Thank you.
— Laura James (@LauraJ521) December 10, 2019
While others pointed out that it’s not glorification, but rather TLC’s fatphobia and exploitation of fat people that continues to produce these shows. Hot & Heavy is not the first TLC program focused on obese people, with My 600-lb Life and My Big Fat Fabulous Life also being popular shows for the channel.
Can we talk about the fatphobia of TLC as a channel because I am sick of it https://t.co/H4SSmBNam2
— Mean Fat Girl- 🏳️🌈💄 (@Artists_Ali) December 11, 2019
TLC keeps making shows so viewers laugh at fat people. https://t.co/5B3L1tG9zS
— Megan Thee Stallion fan page (@_deardiaryyy) December 12, 2019
If you’d like to watch Hot & Heavy and decide for yourself, it’s set to air in January on TLC (which you can access on Foxtel).